Now that I’m dead, I want to tell you a few things. Memories are not recognized in dates or day to day events but in glimpses of memorable moments or remarkable time frames.

When something happened to you – happy, sad, amazing, aweful, inspiring – don’t wait, write it down while it is fresh in your mind. Don’t worry about accuracy, write it the way your heart remembers. These snipets will serve you some day as prized memories or they will let your loved ones know who you were, how you felt, how you loved and grieved and danced and dealt with life. Don’t live the unexamined life, – think, feel, listen, reply, know and love yourself, share yourself with someone you love.

I lived with gusto and shared my life with the most amazing person – my husband, lover, best friend and life was great!